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What Do I Say?

Posted by Keen | Posted in Meeting & Attracting | Posted on 30-06-2010

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Bad question.

Why?

Well, lets say some “pickup artist” tells you what to talk about. Something in his guru wisdom is like ¨chick crack¨. So you go out and talk about that to some chick, but the thing is, you don’t really give a fuck about it. And for that reason, she doesn´t either.

The result?

She loses interest, in turn, you feel rejected, and the whole thing ends in bloody failure.

So what do I talk about?

The answer is this…

When you step to her, in those first few seconds, the only thing that matters is what matters to you. <– That’s worth writing down. Talk about that. Then she won’t get bored because she will see you actually give a fuck about what you are saying, and instead of failure, you’ll have success.

Hold up, wait a minute…

  1. Occipitofrontalis
  2. Procerus
  3. Nasalis muscle
  4. Depressor septi nasi
  5. Orbicularis oculi
  6. Corrugator supercilii
  7. Depressor supercilii
  8. Auricular muscles (anterior, superior, posterior)
  9. Orbicularis oris
  10. Depressor anguli oris
  11. Risorius
  12. Zygomaticus major
  13. Zygomaticus minor
  14. Levator labii superioris
  15. Levator labii superioris alaeque nasi
  16. Depressor labii inferioris
  17. Levator anguli oris
  18. Buccinator
  19. Mentalis
Those are the 19 facial muscles that control subcommunication. Add to that your voice tonality, pitch, volume and speed, you are looking at what causes attraction (or a lack thereof). Not telling cool stories or trying to engage her intellict in some way. Attraction is a matter of engaging her instincts, not her intellect.

So here is a simple but effective answer to your question with the potential to transform your dating life…

Doowutchyalike.

If you don´t care, she won´t either. That´s just how it works. So instead of trying to find some secret formula of magic words, just doowutchyalike. Show her who you really are and bring her into your world. Giving her the opportunity to see things through your eyes. How?

Speak from the *I* perspective.

Forget about trying to impress her, and just give her a glimpse of the real you. I like to say – content is irrelevent – and this way, it really is. Instead of becoming dependent on some line, understand the mechanics behind how attraction really works, make this shift, and you can literally say anthing, to any girl, at any time, for any reason. You talk about WHATEVER, and you attract.

How awesome is that?

Become the sole owner of your own version of attraction. Something no other person in existence posses, except for you.That is a way to ¨give value¨ in a way no one else can.

Word.

-Keen

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Comments (1)

Matthew (AKA Money Alchemist) said on 28-10-2010

Keen,

Props on this post. I am moving to the “content-less” realm that you are speaking about. I imagine that it’s less stressful that trying to memorize lines, but the question is, how to get there? I know a key ingredient in this alchemical formula is practice.

Thanks for posting. And nice Digital Underground song, btw…hittin’ it old school!

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