Well, lets say some “pickup artist” tells you what to talk about. Something in his guru wisdom is like ¨chick crack¨. So you go out and talk about that to some chick, but the thing is, you don’t really give a fuck about it. And for that reason, she doesn´t either.
The result?
She loses interest, in turn, you feel rejected, and the whole thing ends in bloody failure.
So what do I talk about?
The answer is this…
When you step to her, in those first few seconds, the only thing that matters is what matters to you. <– That’s worth writing down. Talk about that. Then she won’t get bored because she will see you actually give a fuck about what you are saying, and instead of failure, you’ll have success.
Hold up, wait a minute…
Occipitofrontalis
Procerus
Nasalis muscle
Depressor septi nasi
Orbicularis oculi
Corrugator supercilii
Depressor supercilii
Auricular muscles (anterior, superior, posterior)
Orbicularis oris
Depressor anguli oris
Risorius
Zygomaticus major
Zygomaticus minor
Levator labii superioris
Levator labii superioris alaeque nasi
Depressor labii inferioris
Levator anguli oris
Buccinator
Mentalis
Those are the 19 facial muscles that control subcommunication. Add to that your voice tonality, pitch, volume and speed, and this in large part is what causes attraction (or a lack thereof). Not telling cool stories or trying to engage her intellict in some way. Attraction is a matter of engaging her instincts, not her intellect.
So here is a simple but effective answer to your question with the potential to transform your dating life…
Doowutchyalike.
If you don´t care, she won´t either. That´s really how it works. So instead of trying to find some secret formula of magic words, just doowutchyalike. Show her who you really are and bring her into your world. Giving her the opportunity to see things through your eyes. How?
Speak from the I perspective.
Forget about trying to impress her, and just give her a glimpse of the real you. I like to say – content is irrelevent – and this way, it really is. Instead of becoming dependent on some line, understand the mechanics behind how attraction really works, make this shift, and you can literally say anthing, to any girl, at any time, for any reason. You talk about WHATEVER, and you attract. How awesome is that?
Become the sole owner of your own version of attraction. Something no other person in existence posses, except for you.That is a way to ¨give value¨ in a way no one else can.
Word.
-Keen
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